When the Goalposts Keep Moving
How Changing Expectations Can Make Capable Employees Feel Inadequate You complete the assignment as requested, but the expectation suddenly changes.
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When You’re Only Important During Their Crisis
Some friendships make you feel deeply needed, but not deeply valued. A friend may reach out constantly when their life
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The Extended Family: When Relatives Enable the Pattern
Narcissistic family patterns rarely exist within one family unit. Sometimes the most painful part is not only the behavior of
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When Loyalty Becomes the Highest Value
Loyalty can be wonderful when it is rooted in love, honesty, and mutual care. A loyal community shows up for
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When Caring Becomes a Performance
Community can be a beautiful thing. It’s what we strive to bring here at The Hidden Pattern Project. It can
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